today,was a tiring day..
we need to move out to move in to a much bigger space
it's crazy and overwhelming!
but we really need to make it fast and just be done..
a lot of organizing,and finding thing's
whew!...GOOD LUCK TO ME
for the first time i have the guts to drive alone with all our things
i realize its not that hard,to drive in a small town! ;)
i am 24 and i am happy!
05/19/2012
this day was a special day my husband treat us in a CRAB BUFFET which is my favorite sea food!
and we have a fun time together with my mother in law effie marie walker,and she was a wonderful lady was happy to be around!
ray gave me a beautiful gift that i can use occasionally,and our neighbors gave me cards and greet me
adam gave me a lot of kisses and hugs!
but the greatest gift is just being with my family.
I thank god for all i have ;)
05/19/2012
this day was a special day my husband treat us in a CRAB BUFFET which is my favorite sea food!
and we have a fun time together with my mother in law effie marie walker,and she was a wonderful lady was happy to be around!
ray gave me a beautiful gift that i can use occasionally,and our neighbors gave me cards and greet me
adam gave me a lot of kisses and hugs!
but the greatest gift is just being with my family.
when i was a baby :)
i cant recognize the person to the right...but that's me when i was a baby,the cute girl in stipe blue shirt is my cousin marlyn,and the other girl in a short hair is my cousin too,her name is marianne,they are so adorable and me too :)they are the youngest in my uncle pedericos children.and i am the youngest in my parents children back then :)
they really wanted to have a baby,but their mother did not get pregnant again..so i am their baby sister,i am their baby till 6 years old but after their oldest sister married and got pregnant we have a new baby boy! and he is so cute :)
then their other sister got married and have a baby,then their other brother got married and have a baby,then her ate marlyn got married and no baby,then ate marianne got married no baby.
my ate marlyn tries and tries and tries...there always have a complication to her she started to get pregnant and lose the baby,doctor said that the baby cant hold old,she do everything to have a baby,coz she really love a baby specially your own..she got to the point the last time that she almost die for trying 50-50
but life is not complete without being a mother,she take the risk again and try one more time in october 2011 and her long wait is paid...all the sacrifices and heart aches..
she delivered a healthy baby boy,his name is aljohn cabral pabustan :) so cute and lovely! hope to see him and adam they can play together too!
thanks to my cousin marlyn :)
to the left,my granma virginia,my brother mark,
me with my bangs,at the back my sister melissa,
and margie :)
i do not have any pics when i was a baby or child,because we do not have a decent house to put it,our roof is always have a holes so after the storm came every little thing in our house is wet or broken,most of the time our roof flies to our neighbors!
before were just living upstairs of my uncle pederico's restoration shop,the father of my cousin who sent me this photo :) the shop size is 200 sqm if i am not mistaken,and it is divided by 2 big rooms,we are two families living upstairs,one is family daligdig with 8people and the second is my uncle boyet,with 3people my uncle pederico's brother too,
this is the funny thing with two families in there but no bathroom...i live the story of the bathroom in there!
but good thing that we have a house to live,we don't need to live on the street,and a food to eat,still thankful :)
but after a year my uncle boyet move out and live to my auntie lisa-
the restoration shop is 3 house away from my uncle pederico's house,so me and my cousin is close to each other,we are there everyday but not to play because they are much older than me,and the parents back their time was very very strict,when you started to have changes in your body you can not do the things your doing when you are a kid,you are not allowed to talk to strangers and boys,hug your brother or father it is just akward,or play with the boys,you need to go home on time or if you will be late,your father is waiting at the door with the belt in his right hand,worst if you did something mistake you gonna end up with a room has a big granules of salt in the floor your going to put your knees in there and spread your hands open with the 2 heavy books in your both hands and head,and stay there as long as your parents tell you.
but they are a good parents ,but i am not agree,they just know their own way of being a parents.
so everyday we come in my cousins house and i am their little doll :) everywhere they go they bring me,to the park or make my hair short,make my clothes or buy me lots of candies or took my pic,and make me eat a lot of food,they give me a bath to the good bathroom :)
thats what i remember when we are living in their restoration shop,but the best part is my granma is there shes the best! she always tell to everybody that i am her favorite grand child,
because i am kind in the heart and not hurt in the head :) if i am 10 minutes away from her eyes she gonna do everything to find me thats how she loves me :) i miss my LOLA,she pass away 2004 at 76,long time ago but she is always in my heart :) that is the only time i remember i cried that long..the weird thing i remember before she died, she never ever say BYE.. to me,but two weeks before,she say..BYE..BYE..and i had a video but after she died my phone broke too..and did not transfer to any device..and the night before she pass away,i cant sleep i sleep i think 3 am in the morning,and when i started to close my eyes...somebody touches my neck..! this is true...!somebody touching my neck for 10 sec.!
and the next morning 9am my mother called,they find out my grandma died at 3am in the morning!
this morning i open my email and my cousin marlyn,send me this photo of my granma,my brother and my sisters:) my other sister is not there because she is always in my other granma and my little sister because she is my age right now in that pic :)
wish everyday is a vacation day..!
ooh...how i really love vacation with my family!
i always have a weird exiting adventurous imagination about vacation,
i would love to have a rv or a trailer and it will be our mini hotel to use and go around america :)
and stopping every place we want to,i like to see many places and go camping on the beach and go fishing,having a little picnik and sleep under the moon and the stars...and wake up in the morning with the birds singing on the trees,go pick some fruits,then go again and again...!
i always have a weird exiting adventurous imagination about vacation,
i would love to have a rv or a trailer and it will be our mini hotel to use and go around america :)
and stopping every place we want to,i like to see many places and go camping on the beach and go fishing,having a little picnik and sleep under the moon and the stars...and wake up in the morning with the birds singing on the trees,go pick some fruits,then go again and again...!
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